Or perhaps they don't even say it, either way when it comes to picking a wedding song or just a song being played at the wedding i really have no idea.. I guess my first choice would be.
I mean why not lol? your agreeing to be locked to one person for your entire life, so i guess "Don't Fear The Reaper" in this sense the reaper being your wife would probably be a good choice.
Hahahahah nah ok maybe not?
I guess if i really had to choose a song that i would love to be played it would have to be the classic "3 Doors Down" track "Here Without You" now i know many people will say, but that songs about not being with someone and being lonely and all that, but it was the song that myself and Marie used to play on repeat for many months before we actually moved in together, and it meant alot to us since she was living in Sweden and i was in the UK.
So definetly i think that would have to be my choice, since whenever i am not with Marie which ain't alot i sometimes still to this day five years later love to sit and listen to that song, and just think of the days where the only way we were together was locked inside a computer game.
Not to mention it's an absolutly amazing song! :)